CHANDA LYNN. Have you ever considered getting off Social Media and putting more time, energy, and attention into your recovery? Maybe if you did you might avoid having thoughts of relapsing when someone you care about dies. Someone else’s death does not make you a victim nor does it have anything to do with you. You still have a lot of work to do. Ego will destroy anyone in recovery. Ego does not discriminate. You are not exempt. Not to mention you’re still blind to the fact that your boyfriend is a full-blown narcissist. Wake-up, Chanda, before you self-destruct.